Lovers FAQ

Lovers FAQ May 14, 2020


FOUNDING STORY- How did you become a Sex & Lifestyle Transformational Coach?

To answer this question, let me tell you a little (maybe not so little haha) about where I started, why and how I do what I do, and what brought me to where I am today – coaching people like you, on exactly what to do to teach the Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth & Relationships.

I have been a stylist for over 15 years. Several years ago, I started to encounter some (what I thought was) work-related pain problems beginning to creep up and take over (I am quite tall and my joints are hypermobile). I was also a very intense workaholic, no lie, I worked approx 55 hrs a week doing hair and had two other part-time jobs! At the same time, Hello Saturn Return,  I also watched almost every aspect of my life crumbling down around me.  Sometimes good things have to fall apart so that better things can happen, and sometimes those things get much worse before they get better… well, spoiler alert.. it definitely got worse!

I was one of the top stylists in a beautiful salon and was very successful, but hated where I was working. I was so tired of the drama and stress it came with, on top of developing intense joint pain/migraines, extreme fatigue & other health issues. It was like walking on eggshells every day, at work AND with my body. I started having anxiety attacks on the reg.

I had also decided to put off my big dreams of travelling and exploring the world, for a few reasons:

  1. Fear of taking time off and losing my clients/ my status in the salon
  2. I was scared of making the wrong decision
  3. It didn’t suite the relationship I was in
  4. AND mostly because: I was drowning in an ocean of crushing debt

This debt was mostly a result of being naive in my early 20’s and being frauded a shit tonne of money. That mistake pretty much dictated the following decade. It was like a gluttonous monster that swallowed up and shat out any sacrificial offerings I brought it.

All of this sucked the big one.. but, shit really hit the fan when I realized I was in yet ANOTHER failing relationship. We weren’t actively choosing and prioritizing each other, our relationship, and our sex life to a level that I knew we both deserved. It had reached its expiration date… (and then some) before I finally couldn’t take it anymore and ended it for both our sakes. It was the icing on a shit cake. I am a Leo… I LOVE love. This was devastating! But in the words of  Against Me, “This just isn’t love, it’s just the remorse of a loss of a feeling.”

I was in a life and relationship that were no longer passionate or intimately fulfilling… Stop the world, I wanted off.

This giant shit sandwich I was being served was actually a direct result of my past actions. I definitely didn’t want to admit it at the time, but I had actively participated in and created the reality I was suffering in. I had finally had enough. It really pushed me to make a decision of how I wanted to live… Because I was sick and tired of feeling like I had to choose between having a healthy and amazing relationship, travelling around the world, taking care of my body/mind/soul, having a sweet career that wasn’t beating up my body and causing me stress, AND MAKE SOME G DAMN MOOLAHHLAA AROUND HERE! It only ever felt like I could have 50% of what I actually wanted at a time.

There had to be another way!


I got the hell up outta that life that was no longer serving me. I moved to a town where I knew one friend, I hired a coach and I invested in a sexually liberating course to free myself of the crap & confusion I was still carrying from my last relationship. I learned how to come home to my body, to create more pleasure in my life, and build confidence in myself! Holy Hell it WAS liberating! I got a new job, made even more money than I was making in the salon I was previously at (which was pretty hard to beat, I did quite well for myself there), I put my nose to the grind and paid off my debt in a year AND I was able to have multiple five figures left over. I am talking about paying off almost $50,000 worth of debt. So, with my finances back in the black, and then some (for the first time in almost a decade) I decided to take some time to “Find myself”. I literally dropped everything, sold everything and set out on a path to go fulfill my life long dream of travelling the world for an undetermined amount of time, figure out what the hell I was doing with my life, and possibly meet the love of my life (I always knew that I would meet him on this big trip.. But so much had to shift for me to make it all happen. It shifted, and it happened!!!)

I got on that plane and in an instant—everything changed.

“An ordinary life did not interest me, I wanted an extraordinary one.

One day I was at a local coffee shop in Pai, Thailand checking my email while sipping a delicious iced coffee. This was shortly after I had met my future husband, but didn’t know it at the time! I had been gone for 6 months or so and was having the time of my life! Along this trip, I had decided that due to the crazy joint pain & health issues (that had dramatically reduced while travelling BTW) I had been experiencing at work, that it was time that I considered changing careers. This was absolutely heartbreaking to me, I loved the beauty industry with a passion, but I needed to find a way to prioritize my health. I couldn’t go back to the way it was. This created a bit of an identity crisis for me, as my whole life was based on the fact that I was a hairstylist. I knew I wanted to find something that I could still keep the favourite parts of my career: creating epic transformation, being creative, helping others feel amazing about themselves, having deep conversations/build rapport & relationships with my clients all while setting new boundaries as my own boss.

In my 15 years in the beauty industry, I had learned how to make lots of money, how to build a clientele quickly (I liked to move a lot lol, I was a bit of a gypsy!) with most of my favourite clients in my roster, and how to keep them pretty happy. I wasn’t afraid to take risks and make bold moves, so I learned some pretty amazing things in the process. I had been a student, an apprentice, a stylist, an instructor, a manager, an owner, employee, and contractor/entrepreneur. I took as many classes and went to as many hair shows/expos as possible! You name it, I had pretty much done it all, the good, the bad, the ugly, the magnificent. I wanted to experience and learn everything I could to dominate an industry that I was so passionate about. The biggest lesson, surprisingly though, was that I learned a lot about what NOT to do too!

I was so inspired by my life-changing trip, meeting the love of my life, working with my coaches, mentors & yoga teachers, as well as all of the amazing experiences I was surrounding myself with. It was when I had finally stopped working myself to the bone long enough, that I was able to gain clarity on what direction I wanted to go in.

After several months of being pen pals (with the hottie I met while backpacking in Cambodia), while I was living in Australia, I  moved back to Canada, took him to my favourite music festival and we decided to give it a go! (This is definitely an epic love story I’ll share more about another time!)

While settling into my new adventure, I remembered back to that day in the coffee shop in Thailand and that I had received an email from the woman I had taken the sexual liberation courses from; offering a Coaching Certification. Then it dawned on me… This wasn’t an option, it was a calling. An unshakable feeling down to the very last cell in my body that I had to share my passion for transformation with the world. I had no idea, at that moment – that my life would change forever, or even more shockingly, just how much it would change.

I had so much knowledge and expertise to share from my years of rocking out in the beauty industry, in such a wide spectrum of experience, that seemed like a waste not to translate these skills/experiences into my coaching career too. I took action and researched how to combine all of my skills, knowledge and expertise, into one amazing career that I could use to help others to design a life of Boss & Badassery (& relationship!) that they didn’t need a vacation from. I could save them the mistakes that cost me a lot, as well as all of the fucking around I had to do to get to where I am at today! Things like: raising prices/asking for a raise/raising financial frequency, money mindset, empowerment/personal development, client-based business building, self-care/worth/confidence, yoga & fitness, meditation, breathwork, stress reduction techniques, building delicious and conscious relationships with yourself, your lover, your career, & money.

Listen, I have been there and back again through the good, the bad, the ugly, the magnificent! I have failed miserably and I have succeeded brilliantly… back and forth, repeatedly. Through all of this, I have found SO MUCH POWER in The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth & Relationships; why this is such a Badass Modern Power Couple must-have…. Say that 5 x fast haha!

I am happily married to the love of my life, someone with whom we are both challenged to grow every single day – whether we feel like it or not, as that was our agreement very early – deciding to have a very conscious and intentional relationship. Our motto is “what’s best for the greater good of our collective“. We work on getting it right instead of trying to be right, and strive to be curious instead of furious when we trigger each other. We are constantly creating life hacks to free up some more time and headspace/emotional capacity to be present with each other. To meet our needs individually as well as as a unit. THIS IS NOT LUCK! ESPECIALLY while dealing with major health issues! Following the tests, dead-end results and still pushing through to get some answers – and trying to not feel like I was going crazy and that what I was experiencing was explainable somehow (Which, we did get answers, a story for another time!) As an awesome side effect, we had also learned a shit tonne about how to take control of our health & lifestyle goals in the process!) Dealing with chronic health issues is not an easy thing for an individual, let alone a relationship – it will really test your boundaries! Like I said though, this is the result of putting in the consistent conscious effort and taking action every day in some way to turn towards one another while we climb the ladder as a team.

Whether you are single or in a relationship, this work can immensely benefit you, if you are ready to make the non-negotiable decision to show up and do the shit needed to get you where you want to be! I will be here to handhold and give a push when needed 🙂

I’ve expanded on my experience immensely, reflected on my mistakes and what I was missing, invested in several kick-ass coaching & business trainings, hired coaches to kick my ass, invested heavily into my wellness, and then started to put it all together into one kick-ass program for you! I began teaching Badass Boss Babes how they can have their cake and eat it too! I have really enjoyed watching their lives, careers, and relationships become more Turned-on and Lit-up! I have since made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping Badass Boss Babes to take control of their power, to create more pleasure, play, & balance within their Self, Wealth & Relationships!

Since then, I’ve worked with many private clients, spoken in front of groups: I live my dream of creating a space for Badass Boss Babes ( & their Lovers!) to have an epicly conscious life. One full of love, sexiness, adventures and all-around badassery!

I have created my Signature Program:

“Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER” [​The Pleasurable Art of  Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.​]

For Lovers seeking to uplevel their Power Couples Status, elevate their erotic & pleasurable intimacy, deepen connection & communicate like LOFO’s (LoverFuckers!) to create that next level kind of love.

Currently brought together in one sexy package! #Fuckyes

Now, here I am…Eager to light the torch for you and take you by the hand as you bravely set off down the path of Sexy Self Discovery. The journey towards Awakening your inner rulers of the Jungle!  To Be a Boss, Date a Boss, and Build YOUR Empire. To start designing a life & relationships that you don’t need a vacation from. To know that you can have everything you want!

You just have to be willing to show up and get started! I look forward to co-creating our adventure together!

With Pleasure,

The Wildness in me Honours the Wildness in you.

Xo, Kat Wildling

Who are your clients & what are they coming to you desiring support with?

I work with awesome couples, just like you, who want to level-up their relationships, connect more, communicate better/efficiently, increase pleasurable and erotic intimacy, and ways to find the space/time/energy to have/do these!

  • They may enjoy things like: Good food with good company, travelling, being active, health/wellness, having fun/playing and spending time with their loved ones, kicking ass and taking names!
  • They are usually in long-term relationships
  • They are most likely creative professionals and/or highly motivated and productive people
  • Usually are rocking out at work but desire a personal/love life that is equally as powerful; craving a balance in work, personal life, and sex-life:
  • Are looking for stress reduction and self-care rituals/systems that are cultivated in sustainability as their badassery grows. (They want to play big and take things to the next level, but wonder how the hell they can possibly take on any more.)
  •  Have things pretty good already, (if not, that’s ok too! I’ve got you!) yet, chances are, they still feel like something is missing… Or fantasizing about what their dream life could be like if only they had/did _____________. (Usually: More time, More Love, More Passion More Energy, and of course, More Cha-Ching!)
  • Are also, usually, burning the candle at both ends and well on their way to burnout trying to build their empire  (A sign of this can be things starting to slip on the home front/personal life/relationships.. dropping balls… and not the fun kind!)
  • Experience some boundaries issues.
  • Sometimes find themselves with no time/energy for anything that they really want to do… Let alone proper self-care rituals, and a low or overdrive libido can show up (most likely from stress/exhaustion)
  • Desire a shift in life towards the greatness they feel that they are meant for ( and they are!!)
  • Desire to be Boss AF & have intimately fulfilling relationships, better relationships with themselves, their friends, Lovers, fam, wealth & Live their best life!!  A life full of pleasure, power, success, turn-on, play & that is so awesome they don’t need a vacation from it!
  • I work with both straight and gay clients!
If one or more of these fit the bill, no worries! This is exactly what I am here to support!

What makes you different from other Coaches? (Sex/ Relationship/ Wealth Mindset/ Success )

First off, I work with desire-based coaching vs a “fix the problem” kind of coaching. Using the “come from” of inspiration vs desperation towards your goals that are fueled by desire (enthusiasm has a half-life!) to keep you motivated to stay on track vs being pushed into feeling like things have to change out of desperation.

By addressing very powerful sources (Our Turn-On, Desire, Pleasure, Intimacy & Money) that we have been taught to fear/avoid but also simultaneously desire, we cut through the crap and confusion quicker to get you the results you are craving.

Secondly, I am trained in the VITA Method from the Institute of Integrated Sexuality. VITA stands for the “Vital & Integrated Tantric Approach” to coaching. This Method is a transformational process to awaken sensuality through the use of holistic tools and has the power to unlock deep levels of pleasure, connection, self-confidence, power, and self-love. Through the powerful combination of holistic tools such as breathwork, pleasure practices, healing, meditative practices, energy work, sounding, and movement, this method offers a completely unique approach to awakening sensuality and power ESPECIALLY when combined with talk coaching, desire-based goal setting, and accountability.

On top of my coaching training and expertise, I also have extensive experience in empowerment & space holding, 15 years of holding space for clients in the Beauty Industry and 5 years of teaching yoga/meditation.

I believe in the power of cultivating and using Sexual energy to create the life of your desires (Sexual energy is turn-on and pleasure in motion). I am inspired by the fact that there is so much power to be found in pleasure, play and compassion. It doesn’t always have to be the “path of purification” and hardship.

I am very empathetic and understanding, but I also will call you on your limiting belief systems ( Basically, I will call you on your shit!) and hold you accountable! I love to be playful, to get really curious, and be open to what comes up… And I encourage you to do the same! Everything is useful information about the bigger picture.

Sensuality integration into coaching creates a powerful secret weapon to address the mind/body/soul as a WHOLE to break through resistance and live the life you desire.

I’ve been there, done that, still doing it (Rome wasn’t built in a day!), and have the experience, multi-perspective, and a very compassionate approach. I work hard to create a safe, relaxed, easy-going and non-judgemental container and I hold space for you like I would my dearest besties!

We are concerned with how to get the benefits/outcomes of your signature program: “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.]

As a desire-based coaching system, we don’t spend all of our time focusing on what’s holding you back – instead, we focus on your vision of what you deeply desire to call into your life.

My coaching style contains a deep methodology that incorporates breath-work, movement, embodiment practices, energy work, meditation, visualization exercises, as well as talk coaching. You may not like what I have to say– but you can be sure I will always be honest with you in service of your deepest truth and highest self. You’ll get out of your head into your body through home-play exercises, in session guided practices, goals, accountability, and follow up sessions with notes and emails; All set up to support you and keep you on track with your desires.

As long as you are showing up and committing to consistent conscious effort and taking action every day in turning towards each other, you will see results.

What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of us?

My Signature Program: ​“Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] (As well as my other workshops, products and programs) were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead-serious about taking their life (Self, Wealth & Relationships) to the next level., A.K.A.: Building their Empire. A successful empire consists of Power, Balance, and Love. – it means not running around all day long, like a chicken with your head cut off constantly putting out fires. By this, I mean trying to balance career/life/relationships with no support, totally on your own, but also not enough energy to give each the attention it really deserves to create that harmony and ease.

This means, no more beating yourself up anymore saying:

  • “​ Yes (to things that you don’t really want to do but feel guilty).​
  • “​I don’t know what to do differently.”
  • ” I don’t even know where to start”
  • ” I want to work on things, but my Lover won’t/can’t/etc” (While Lover says the same)
  • “I can’t take on anymore because I am already maxed out and overwhelmed.”
  • ” I’m not ready to.”
  • ” I don’t think I can.”
  • etc!​

The Program was created for you to put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks!), which will eventually lead you to:

  • Harmony of Self, Wealth, and Relationships.
  • Feeling like total Queens &/ Kings in balancing business AND the bedroom!
  • Cultivate sustainable and easily renewable energy
  • Find balance in career, personal and love life.
  • Be vulvatious &/Ballsy in up-levelling your Wealth Mindset & setting financial goals together
  • Prioritize yourself guilt-free so that you can be of better service to others in your life, especially your Lover!
  • create more space for play & free time
  • Feel amazing, confident and at home in your body with more energy.
  • Create delicious & conscious relationships to your wealth and finances.

Being a creative professional myself, I’m known to work best with other creative, artistic & in-service-to-bettering-the-world Badasses in similar types of service industries. But not limited to!

Lovers who:

  • Are committed to their success no matter what
  • Are totally ready to take things to the next level, no excuses
  • Just want to know exactly what steps to take to awaken the Ruler of the Jungle within, the one who knows how to play big and live the epic and delicious life you have always dreamed could be possible.

My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!”. Consider what you’ll do with me, to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to show up as the Ruler of the Jungle you know you are capable of, to create balance in your career/relationship/personal life! You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal of being awesome, rocking out, kicking ass and taking names while living a life you don’t need a vacation from.

But don’t worry, it isn’t all just ass-kicking Bootcamp! Once you start building a really great foundation for your empire to be built upon, then it becomes really fun and exciting to play and watch it grow!! It will be worth it, Trust me!

For what type of people are your programs NOT going to work?

Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn’t be fair to them and I don’t like to waste anyone’s time.)

The ​“Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of living Turned on AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] & other Kat Wildling programs are NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate, at least not right away. It’s been my experience that people in financial crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and usually do not show up fully and do the work (possibly because they spend a lot of time worrying about how they are going to get next month’s bills met.)

If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK! We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. Myself included!!

Do yourself (3) favours:

  • Get some money coming in with a full-time or part-time job at the very least, and then call me. This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on your program, coaching assignments and the BIG picture. Once you start seeing the shifts, opportunities and relationships that change as a result of our work, you can then start reducing the hours you work at that other job and focus on your own practice.
  • SIGN UP HERE  to receive a FREE copy of my E-Book, “A Queen B’s Playbook for Mastery of Boss & Badassery “ and the free bonuses in my Love Notes Emails when you join the Collective Tribe of Badassery (watch for it in the welcome emails)​. The free information will get you started towards your goals until you’re ready to work with me 1:1 or in a group.
  • Join my community and check out my FREE content online ( Sign up for my Love Notes Email List, follow me on ​Instagram​  & Youtube​ [Coming Soon!])

Doing these three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, email me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you are ready)

Other types of personalities I won’t work with (without exception) are the whiner, complainer, or the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who constantly make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not apply and I hope you understand why! We most likely will not vibe or work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?

Do you work with same-sex and opposite sex-couples?

I currently do work with same-sex  & also with opposite-sex Lovers!

If my work feels in alignment and you are open and willing to explore,  reach out and let’s start a conversation!

I always say: if the shoes fit, feel free to go for a cruize! (Basically, if you find my content speaks to you or if you find what I have to offer relatable, chances are my coaching methods will benefit you!)

What exactly is your Signature Coaching Program “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] and what does it include?

The Program​ ​begins with gaining clarity on what you really desire as a unit and how you want to build your empire together moving forward in this program and making a “no-bullshit, no-excuses, non-negotiable” decision to fully commit for at least the time of our program. If one or both has one foot out the door, then you will have a really hard time seeing what the potential capacity of your relationship really could be. Not a great place to start building a solid foundation.

Here’s what the System gets you to do:

  • We get crystal clear on your Core Desires and begin building a road map to your desired destination. Roll into delicious guided meditations to visualize the end results you crave.
  • We will establish launching/landing & greeting/parting rituals, stress reduction & self-care strategies and start to clear out any stress that has been on the backburner slowly draining your energy.
  • We move into getting clear on your desires(goals) and how to manifest what you want, getting out of your head and into your bodies to deepen your relationship with each other, creating powerful intentions that will support you in creating a safe space for each other with the focus on “what’s best for the greater collective”
  • To learn how to become an “expert” on your Lover & how to get your needs met & meet your Lover’s without feeling like it’s more on your plate as it will be equally energizing and uplifting when done with love and intention.
  • Deeper exploration to find what has been hiding and hindering your progress in achieving your goals in the past. Tools and techniques to put your inner badass in charge and how to call forth in challenging situations/ the face of resistance.
  • Tools and techniques to connect & communicate like ninjas! (Especially in hard to have convos/ hot topics/ ongoing arguments/disagreements.)
  • Feeling desire: Cultivate Your Sexual Energy, Sensuality & Pleasurable Intimacy to uplevel your erotic encounters in a way that supports you to thrive.
  • Discover how to come home your body and amp up feeling SEXY and frisky again. You will learn how to regain your confidence & have MORE intimacy in your relationship of self & with your Lover.
  • Gaining clarity on how to deal with “gremlins” or as I like to call it “ the Asshole Upstairs” ( Negative self-talk) and shift perspectives to have loving compassion, pull up your big girl/boy panties and get this party started!
  • How to create daily/weekly/monthly rituals for sustained PLEASURE, PASSION & BADASSERY
  • Celebrate, uplevel, repeat! Conscious wrap-up of the awesomeness we have been creating together, a celebration of success, as well as support strategies & future possibilities to continue on and deepen the adventure!


** Disclaimer: My job is not to keep you together. A successful relationship isn’t measured by how long you were together/if you stay together. It’s the quality and intention and growth put in while in it.. however long that is! could be 6 months, could be a lifetime! Obvs our intention is to support you in growing together, but ultimately it comes down to what is best for the greater collective, whatever that looks like! My job is to support you in gaining clarity, holding space, offering tools & facilitating the path along your adventure together in building an empire together to give you the best chance possible to grow as you choose to do so. **

Does this really work?

Yes!  The result of our work is an approach of shifting your mindset, getting you out of your head more & into your body, as well as, cultivating healthy & helpful habits within a balanced lifestyle to set you up for sustainable success. We will put systems in place for rituals of self-care, cultivate your relationships, and connect to your Turn-On, while making this a more enjoyable process in desire-based coaching methods. If you fully show up and dive into the practices & Homeplay- you will see results.

You get out what you are willing to put in!

See Testimonials from past clients

What type of results can we expect?

If you show up fully and do the work, some or more the results you can expect are/ to:

  • Learn how to manage and prevent burnout
  • Have big breakthroughs and ah-ha moments
  • See health benefits, living stress-free
  • Uplevel your pleasurable intimacy & erotic frequency
  • elevate your Power Couples Status & become that couple that everyone is jelly of
  • tools to respond instead of reacting to each other and how to notice signs/talk down from a ledge.. even when it previously felt impossible to do so
  • to communicate like LOFO’s ( LoverFuckers!)
  • Let go of shit that’s been holding you back and move forward with pleasure!
  • Anxiety dissipates and peace, calm, and clarity set in
  • Create new standards for yourselves
  • Fill your gas tank & learn how to self-nurture
  • Reach your passions in life
  • understand your Lover’s behaviour and how to read/adapt/stand your ground
  • how to deeply meet each other’s needs on a level like never before
  • how to navigate storms & bumpy roads together and still come out on top 😉
  • Discover your true selves & true nature
  • Set goals together & individually, reach them and actually be able to enjoy it
  • Feel empowered & excited about the future
  • Fall back in love with yourself & your Lover
  • Breakout in creativity, feel inspired, kick ass & take names as a badass unit!
  • Vibrate as loving beings, and become truly unconditionally loving with all your relationships (even the most intense ones that normally trigger you)
  • Develop more compassion for yourself, your Lover and others
  • Be clear concise and honest in your communication
  • Create healthy boundaries
  • Have more ease and grace in your life
  • Truly love the version of yourself that shows up to play this game called life
  • Learn how to say NO and how to honour your yes and no’s
  • Find joy & bliss
  • Watch your best life unfold with ease
  • Connect with your intuition
  • Create DEEP & connected intimacy
  • meaning in your personal relationships
  • Understand how your soul is awakening and developing
  • End the drama cycles and patterns
  • Raise your self-esteem and self-confidence
  • Rewrite your love story
  • Open your heart and expand into your TRUE being
  • How to see your relationships as mirrors and open channels for transformation
  • Gain unshakeable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).
  • Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self- sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and start living your passion and purpose with ease
  •  Learn how to set boundaries with yourself, your Lover, and those around you
  • Work smarter at building your empire, not harder
  • Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER of Self, Wealth, and Relationships together as a Power Couple badass duo
  • Learn tools to sustain your energy & keep pulling yourself into your future as opposed to pushing so hard
  • Stay accountable to these goals and achieve them
  • Be a badass Rulers of the Jungle!
  • and so much more is possible!

Can we see some of your former clients' testimonials to see what it’s like to work with you?

Yes, I encourage you to!
Please go to the Client Testimonials HERE and read all of them. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get too, or perhaps because that person is in a similar situation. Don’t just take my word for it, see their experiences for yourself!

How quickly can we expect results?

That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and rock-out in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first and that can slow the process a bit, all of which is also totally ok! Everyone’s journey varies as we all come from different backgrounds and face different resistances. It’s not about competing with yourself or anyone else, I only expect you to show up and do your best.

It also depends on:

  • How much you show up and actually do the Practices, Playbook, and Homeplay Assignments.
  • How quickly you are willing to let go of your ego and limiting belief systems and step into your power
  • How willing you are to get really uncomfortable and face some deep shit that has been stagnating/lurking in your body and holding you back
  • How open you are to shifting your beliefs and taking radical self-responsibility to step into your full power of self, wealth, and relationships
  • Willingness to let go of who you were/have always been/have always done and welcome in who you need to be/what you need to do to get shit done and get the results you are looking for
  • How well you understand and apply Einstein’s definition of ​insanity:​ doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. T​his means being willing to examine that you are here because you want a different reality than you are currently living.. So we need to do things differently than you’ve been doing.

How can we guarantee ourselves that we will get more {benefits}, in record time?

Do all of your Homeplay. Show up fully. Be totally committed to your success. Be open to change and get uncomfortable (if this were easy, everyone would do it). Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of ​ “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] ​have successfully levelled-up their relationships & lifestyle in much less time than they would have on their own. They also have had really great lasting results as long as they stick to it and don’t fall back into old habits/routines/belief systems.

Will we recover the investment we put into this coaching program?/ How do we know it's worth it for us?

I want you to stop reading for just one moment to ask yourself, “What is building the life of our deepest desires & a relationship that we don’t need a vacation from- worth to us?” Chances are, depending on your focus in our program, the information and skills you learn with “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] and with other tools and techniques in my coaching methodology, will create what I call long-term sustainability through consistent conscious effort! That will move your Relationships, Lifestyle & Mindset faster than you would on your own. Expect to get a lot of these as well as the resources and systems you’ve been looking for and haven’t found until now. That’s what you’re investing in, results, the confidence to raise your frequency, more confidence in general, cultivating more pleasurable intimacy & erotic intimacy, stress reduction & management for sustainable energy, and deeper connections of Self, Wealth & Relationships. There is a wealth of knowledge to be gained here, not just financially!

Kat, based on everything we’ve read and heard about you, we know you’re the one we want to co-create with. What are our options for getting started with you?

Congratulations on making a decision for success! Whoo hoooo! I celebrate you! I’m so stoked to adventure & explore together!

The best way to work with me is in my Signature Program for Lovers:

“Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.]

You can Book a free Discovery Call (If you haven’t already) to explore if what you are looking for and what I offer are in alignment and if we are a good fit to work together!

Or you can reach out to me: if you have any further questions before wanting to book a call!

I also highly recommend reading my free E-book ( Both men & women will benefit greatly from it!)

* SIGN UP HERE  to receive a FREE copy of my E-Book, “A Queen B’s Playbook of Boss & Badassery (For Badass Boss Babes & their lovers)” 

COMING SOON – The Modern Couples Guide of Mastery in Boss & Badassery, an E-book for the Busy & Boss AF Modern Couple full of Love & Lifestyle hacks as well as some really insightful and helpful info on coming out on top in the modern world! ( Email me to get on the wait-list!)

OK, we are ready to do this for our relationship, but we have a couple of additional questions. How do we connect with you?

AMAZEBALLS!! Sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email me at

I have several package options to accommodate different schedules/incomes/level of support desired.

I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. I can’t wait to see you thrive and am honoured to be the one to guide & support you!

Let’s begin the adventure!

The Wildness in Me Honours the Wildness in You,