First off, I work with desire-based coaching vs a “fix the problem” kind of coaching. Using the “come from” of inspiration vs desperation towards your goals that are fueled by desire (enthusiasm has a half-life!) to keep you motivated to stay on track vs being pushed into feeling like things have to change out of desperation.

By addressing very powerful sources (Our Turn-On, Desire, Pleasure, Intimacy & Money) that we have been taught to fear/avoid but also simultaneously desire, we cut through the crap and confusion quicker to get you the results you are craving.

Secondly, I am trained in the VITA Method from the Institute of Integrated Sexuality. VITA stands for the “Vital & Integrated Tantric Approach” to coaching. This Method is a transformational process to awaken sensuality through the use of holistic tools and has the power to unlock deep levels of pleasure, connection, self-confidence, power, and self-love. Through the powerful combination of holistic tools such as breathwork, pleasure practices, healing, meditative practices, energy work, sounding, and movement, this method offers a completely unique approach to awakening sensuality and power ESPECIALLY when combined with talk coaching, desire-based goal setting, and accountability.

On top of my coaching training and expertise, I also have extensive experience in empowerment & space holding, 15 years of holding space for clients in the Beauty Industry and 5 years of teaching yoga/meditation.

I believe in the power of cultivating and using Sexual energy to create the life of your desires (Sexual energy is turn-on and pleasure in motion). I am inspired by the fact that there is so much power to be found in pleasure, play and compassion. It doesn’t always have to be the “path of purification” and hardship.

I am very empathetic and understanding, but I also will call you on your limiting belief systems ( Basically, I will call you on your shit!) and hold you accountable! I love to be playful, to get really curious, and be open to what comes up… And I encourage you to do the same! Everything is useful information about the bigger picture.

Sensuality integration into coaching creates a powerful secret weapon to address the mind/body/soul as a WHOLE to break through resistance and live the life you desire.

I’ve been there, done that, still doing it (Rome wasn’t built in a day!), and have the experience, multi-perspective, and a very compassionate approach. I work hard to create a safe, relaxed, easy-going and non-judgemental container and I hold space for you like I would my dearest besties!

As a desire-based coaching system, we don’t spend all of our time focusing on what’s holding you back – instead, we focus on your vision of what you deeply desire to call into your life.

My coaching style contains a deep methodology that incorporates breath-work, movement, embodiment practices, energy work, meditation, visualization exercises, as well as talk coaching. You may not like what I have to say– but you can be sure I will always be honest with you in service of your deepest truth and highest self. You’ll get out of your head into your body through home-play exercises, in session guided practices, goals, accountability, and follow up sessions with notes and emails; All set up to support you and keep you on track with your desires.

As long as you are showing up and committing to consistent conscious effort and taking action every day in turning towards each other, you will see results.

My Signature Program: ​“Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] (As well as my other workshops, products and programs) were created for people who are absolutely excited and dead-serious about taking their life (Self, Wealth & Relationships) to the next level., A.K.A.: Building their Empire. A successful empire consists of Power, Balance, and Love. – it means not running around all day long, like a chicken with your head cut off constantly putting out fires. By this, I mean trying to balance career/life/relationships with no support, totally on your own, but also not enough energy to give each the attention it really deserves to create that harmony and ease.

This means, no more beating yourself up anymore saying:

• “​ Yes (to things that you don’t really want to do but feel guilty).​
• “​I don’t know what to do differently.”
• ” I don’t even know where to start”
• ” I want to work on things, but my Lover won’t/can’t/etc” (While Lover says the same)
• “I can’t take on anymore because I am already maxed out and overwhelmed.”
• ” I’m not ready to.”
• ” I don’t think I can.”
• etc!​

The Program was created for you to put systems in place within a few months (sometimes weeks!), which will eventually lead you to:

• Harmony of Self, Wealth, and Relationships.
• Feeling like total Queens &/ Kings in balancing business AND the bedroom!
• Cultivate sustainable and easily renewable energy
• Find balance in career, personal and love life.
• Be vulvatious &/Ballsy in up-levelling your Wealth Mindset & setting financial goals together
• Prioritize yourself guilt-free so that you can be of better service to others in your life, especially your Lover!
• create more space for play & free time
• Feel amazing, confident and at home in your body with more energy.
• Create delicious & conscious relationships to your wealth and finances.

Being a creative professional myself, I’m known to work best with other creative, artistic & in-service-to-bettering-the-world Badasses in similar types of service industries. But not limited to!

Lovers who:

• Are committed to their success no matter what
• Are totally ready to take things to the next level, no excuses
• Just want to know exactly what steps to take to awaken the Ruler of the Jungle within, the one who knows how to play big and live the epic and delicious life you have always dreamed could be possible.

My clients often tell me – “just tell me what to do and I’ll do it!”. Consider what you’ll do with me, to be a high-octane crash course on everything you need to know to show up as the Ruler of the Jungle you know you are capable of, to create balance in your career/relationship/personal life! You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. No excuses anymore, just a very different way of thinking and full support while you achieve this incredibly exciting goal of being awesome, rocking out, kicking ass and taking names while living a life you don’t need a vacation from.

But don’t worry, it isn’t all just ass-kicking Bootcamp! Once you start building a really great foundation for your empire to be built upon, then it becomes really fun and exciting to play and watch it grow!! It will be worth it, Trust me!

Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for. (It wouldn’t be fair to them and I don’t like to waste anyone’s time.)

The ​“Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of living Turned on AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] & other Kat Wildling programs are NOT for those who have no money coming in and are absolutely, financially desperate, at least not right away. It’s been my experience that people in financial crisis do not trust the recommendations I give them and usually do not show up fully and do the work (possibly because they spend a lot of time worrying about how they are going to get next month’s bills met.)

If you fall within this category, it’s absolutely OK! We’ve all been in times of financial crisis at one point or another. Myself included!!

Do yourself (3) favours:

• Get some money coming in with a full-time or part-time job at the very least, and then call me. This will take the edge off and provide a little more peace of mind. Mostly, it will de-clutter your mind enough to focus on your program, coaching assignments and the BIG picture. Once you start seeing the shifts, opportunities and relationships that change as a result of our work, you can then start reducing the hours you work at that other job and focus on your own practice.
• SIGN UP HERE  to receive a FREE copy of my E-Book, “A Queen B’s Playbook for Mastery of Boss & Badassery “ and the free bonuses in my Love Notes Emails when you join the Collective Tribe of Badassery (watch for it in the welcome emails)​. The free information will get you started towards your goals until you’re ready to work with me 1:1 or in a group.
• Join my community and check out my FREE content online ( Sign up for my Love Notes Email List, follow me on ​Instagram​  & Youtube​ [Coming Soon!])

Doing these three things will really help you get primed for our work. When you’re ready, email me and we’ll get you started. (I’m in no rush and will be here when you are ready)

Other types of personalities I won’t work with (without exception) are the whiner, complainer, or the chronic skeptic, as well as individuals who constantly make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not apply and I hope you understand why! We most likely will not vibe or work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?

I currently do work with same-sex  & also with opposite-sex Lovers!

If my work feels in alignment and you are open and willing to explore,  reach out Boss@Katwildling.com and let’s start a conversation!

I always say: if the shoes fit, feel free to go for a cruize! (Basically, if you find my content speaks to you or if you find what I have to offer relatable, chances are my coaching methods will benefit you!)

The Program​ ​begins with gaining clarity on what you really desire as a unit and how you want to build your empire together moving forward in this program and making a “no-bullshit, no-excuses, non-negotiable” decision to fully commit for at least the time of our program. If one or both has one foot out the door, then you will have a really hard time seeing what the potential capacity of your relationship really could be. Not a great place to start building a solid foundation.

Here’s what the System gets you to do:

• We get crystal clear on your Core Desires and begin building a road map to your desired destination. Roll into delicious guided meditations to visualize the end results you crave.
• We will establish launching/landing & greeting/parting rituals, stress reduction & self-care strategies and start to clear out any stress that has been on the backburner slowly draining your energy.
• We move into getting clear on your desires(goals) and how to manifest what you want, getting out of your head and into your bodies to deepen your relationship with each other, creating powerful intentions that will support you in creating a safe space for each other with the focus on “what’s best for the greater collective”
• To learn how to become an “expert” on your Lover & how to get your needs met & meet your Lover’s without feeling like it’s more on your plate as it will be equally energizing and uplifting when done with love and intention.
• Deeper exploration to find what has been hiding and hindering your progress in achieving your goals in the past. Tools and techniques to put your inner badass in charge and how to call forth in challenging situations/ the face of resistance.
• Tools and techniques to connect & communicate like ninjas! (Especially in hard to have convos/ hot topics/ ongoing arguments/disagreements.)
• Feeling desire: Cultivate Your Sexual Energy, Sensuality & Pleasurable Intimacy to uplevel your erotic encounters in a way that supports you to thrive.
• Discover how to come home your body and amp up feeling SEXY and frisky again. You will learn how to regain your confidence & have MORE intimacy in your relationship of self & with your Lover.
• Gaining clarity on how to deal with “gremlins” or as I like to call it “ the Asshole Upstairs” ( Negative self-talk) and shift perspectives to have loving compassion, pull up your big girl/boy panties and get this party started!
• How to create daily/weekly/monthly rituals for sustained PLEASURE, PASSION & BADASSERY
• Celebrate, uplevel, repeat! Conscious wrap-up of the awesomeness we have been creating together, a celebration of success, as well as support strategies & future possibilities to continue on and deepen the adventure!

** Disclaimer: My job is not to keep you together. A successful relationship isn’t measured by how long you were together/if you stay together. It’s the quality and intention and growth put in while in it.. however long that is! could be 6 months, could be a lifetime! Obvs our intention is to support you in growing together, but ultimately it comes down to what is best for the greater collective, whatever that looks like! My job is to support you in gaining clarity, holding space, offering tools & facilitating the path along your adventure together in building an empire together to give you the best chance possible to grow as you choose to do so. **

Yes!  The result of our work is an approach of shifting your mindset, getting you out of your head more & into your body, as well as, cultivating healthy & helpful habits within a balanced lifestyle to set you up for sustainable success. We will put systems in place for rituals of self-care, cultivate your relationships, and connect to your Turn-On, while making this a more enjoyable process in desire-based coaching methods. If you fully show up and dive into the practices & Homeplay- you will see results.

You get out what you are willing to put in!

See Testimonials from past clients

If you show up fully and do the work, some or more the results you can expect are/ to:

• Learn how to manage and prevent burnout
• Have big breakthroughs and ah-ha moments
• See health benefits, living stress-free
• Uplevel your pleasurable intimacy & erotic frequency
• elevate your Power Couples Status & become that couple that everyone is jelly of
• tools to respond instead of reacting to each other and how to notice signs/talk down from a ledge.. even when it previously felt impossible to do so
• to communicate like LOFO’s ( LoverFuckers!)
• Let go of shit that’s been holding you back and move forward with pleasure!
• Anxiety dissipates and peace, calm, and clarity set in
• Create new standards for yourselves
• Fill your gas tank & learn how to self-nurture
• Reach your passions in life
• understand your Lover’s behaviour and how to read/adapt/stand your ground
• how to deeply meet each other’s needs on a level like never before
• how to navigate storms & bumpy roads together and still come out on top 😉
• Discover your true selves & true nature
• Set goals together & individually, reach them and actually be able to enjoy it
• Feel empowered & excited about the future
• Fall back in love with yourself & your Lover
• Breakout in creativity, feel inspired, kick ass & take names as a badass unit!
• Vibrate as loving beings, and become truly unconditionally loving with all your relationships (even the most intense ones that normally trigger you)
• Develop more compassion for yourself, your Lover and others
• Be clear concise and honest in your communication
• Create healthy boundaries
• Have more ease and grace in your life
• Truly love the version of yourself that shows up to play this game called life
• Learn how to say NO and how to honour your yes and no’s
• Find joy & bliss
• Watch your best life unfold with ease
• Connect with your intuition
• Create DEEP & connected intimacy
• meaning in your personal relationships
• Understand how your soul is awakening and developing
• End the drama cycles and patterns
• Raise your self-esteem and self-confidence
• Rewrite your love story
• Open your heart and expand into your TRUE being
• How to see your relationships as mirrors and open channels for transformation
• Gain unshakeable confidence in yourself – (a lot of my clients tell me that is worth the investment alone).
• Learn proven techniques for releasing your internal resistance and self- sabotaging tendencies so you can take action and start living your passion and purpose with ease
•  Learn how to set boundaries with yourself, your Lover, and those around you
• Work smarter at building your empire, not harder
• Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER of Self, Wealth, and Relationships together as a Power Couple badass duo
• Learn tools to sustain your energy & keep pulling yourself into your future as opposed to pushing so hard
• Stay accountable to these goals and achieve them
• Be a badass Rulers of the Jungle!
• and so much more is possible!

Yes, I encourage you to!
Please go to the Client Testimonials HERE and read all of them. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get too, or perhaps because that person is in a similar situation. Don’t just take my word for it, see their experiences for yourself!

That depends on how quickly you can make those inner shifts. Some clients are ready to go and rock-out in a very short time frame, sometimes even a few weeks while others have a bit more work to do first and that can slow the process a bit, all of which is also totally ok! Everyone’s journey varies as we all come from different backgrounds and face different resistances. It’s not about competing with yourself or anyone else, I only expect you to show up and do your best.

It also depends on:

• How much you show up and actually do the Practices, Playbook, and Homeplay Assignments.
• How quickly you are willing to let go of your ego and limiting belief systems and step into your power
• How willing you are to get really uncomfortable and face some deep shit that has been stagnating/lurking in your body and holding you back
• How open you are to shifting your beliefs and taking radical self-responsibility to step into your full power of self, wealth, and relationships
• Willingness to let go of who you were/have always been/have always done and welcome in who you need to be/what you need to do to get shit done and get the results you are looking for
• How well you understand and apply Einstein’s definition of ​insanity:​ doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. T​his means being willing to examine that you are here because you want a different reality than you are currently living.. So we need to do things differently than you’ve been doing.

Do all of your Homeplay. Show up fully. Be totally committed to your success. Be open to change and get uncomfortable (if this were easy, everyone would do it). Understand that this is a process, a proven one, that works if you take action and implement all of the steps. All my clients who have diligently applied every step of ​ “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] ​have successfully levelled-up their relationships & lifestyle in much less time than they would have on their own. They also have had really great lasting results as long as they stick to it and don’t fall back into old habits/routines/belief systems.

I want you to stop reading for just one moment to ask yourself, “What is building the life of our deepest desires & a relationship that we don’t need a vacation from- worth to us?” Chances are, depending on your focus in our program, the information and skills you learn with “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.] and with other tools and techniques in my coaching methodology, will create what I call long-term sustainability through consistent conscious effort! That will move your Relationships, Lifestyle & Mindset faster than you would on your own. Expect to get a lot of these as well as the resources and systems you’ve been looking for and haven’t found until now. That’s what you’re investing in, results, the confidence to raise your frequency, more confidence in general, cultivating more pleasurable intimacy & erotic intimacy, stress reduction & management for sustainable energy, and deeper connections of Self, Wealth & Relationships. There is a wealth of knowledge to be gained here, not just financially!

Congratulations on making a decision for success! Whoo hoooo! I celebrate you! I’m so stoked to adventure & explore together!

The best way to work with me is in my Signature Program for Lovers:

​ “Build YOUR Empire TOGETHER: Coaching for Busy & Boss AF Modern Couples” [The Pleasurable Art of Living Turned-On AND Thriving in a Sexy Threesome of Self, Wealth, & Relationships.]

You can Book a free Discovery Call (If you haven’t already) to explore if what you are looking for and what I offer are in alignment and if we are a good fit to work together!

Or you can reach out to me: Boss@Katwildling.com if you have any further questions before wanting to book a call!

I also highly recommend reading my free E-book ( Both men & women will benefit greatly from it!)

* SIGN UP HERE  to receive a FREE copy of my E-Book, “A Queen B’s Playbook of Boss & Badassery (For Badass Boss Babes & their lovers)” 

COMING SOON – The Modern Couples Guide of Mastery in Boss & Badassery, an E-book for the Busy & Boss AF Modern Couple full of Love & Lifestyle hacks as well as some really insightful and helpful info on coming out on top in the modern world! ( Email me to get on the wait-list!)

AMAZEBALLS!! Sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email me at Boss@Katwildling.com.

I have several package options to accommodate different schedules/incomes/level of support desired.

I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you. I can’t wait to see you thrive and am honoured to be the one to guide & support you!